Men, women, and unwanted sexual advances
Harvey Weinstein's alleged sexual misdemeanours, and as some allege, rape has led to the issue of sexual abuse and sexual harassment being discussed in the media. Sometimes these terms are used interchangeably, so let me state at the outset that they are not the same- the former is much more serious.
Let us accept that times have changed from the days when I was a young man. In those days in an office any young woman could be subjected to unwanted attention, and if they had the temerity to complain to the boss they would be told that 'boys will be boys' and not to make a fuss.
I am ashamed to say that when I worked in an office in the mid nineteen fifties, and had to ask a young typist to do something for me, I put my arm around her. She told me in no uncertain terms to remove it, and called me a creep; that put me in my place!
And that is what worries me about the present debate. It is in the nature of young men to try and make it with young women, and if the women don't want the advances they should, like my typist, make their feelings clear. It only becomes harassment if they persist.
There is another problem however, and that is the problem of power. Lord Acton famously said 'All power corrupts' and men (it is nearly always men) sometimes use their power to gain sexual favours. An obvious example of this is the casting couch, but of course it can occur in any industry where women want to seek advancement, and men have the power to impede their progress.
Clearly this behaviour is an abuse, and little short of blackmail.
On the other hand it must be said that some women are drawn to powerful men, and others will use their sexuality to gain their objectives.
What is also worrying about the present situation is the ability of people to make wide-ranging and unsubstantiated allegations, often on social media, followed by a consensus that there is no smoke without fire. This goes against the important principal that a man (or woman) is innocent until proven guilty, and smacks of a witch hunt.
Unless he is guilty of more serious offences (and we don't know this) there is something odd about the Defence Secretary being forced to resign over an incident 15 years ago when he patted a journalists knee an number of times. As the woman herself said,
it must be the strangest reason for a resignation in political history.
Michael Jimack